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Thriving Launch School. Have you been pondering how to fix your marriage? A number of couples are experiencing misery in their marriages and Larry Bilotta was one of them. He was unhappily married for 27 years but was able to figure out how to save it and totally transformed his relationship. In this interview, he talks about the reason why couples lose their intimacy in their marriages and how it affects them and their family. He emphasized that acceptance for every tiny little thing becomes the key to having the marriage that you want.
If you are interested in knowing how to fix your marriage, keep reading! Programing is an instruction that is put in your brain in those first 10 years. It will stay with you the rest of your life. Childhood chaos — when you experienced abuse, abandonment, and neglect in your childhood. This will come for you right in your intimate relationship, you really need to consider it when learning how to fix your marriage. One person collapses morally, spiritually, financially every other way and that kills intimacy.
When the intimacy is dead, the marriage is over. You have to struggle through learning how to fix your marriage. Addressing the chaos kid. You also married this entity that possesses them as well and it is important to know how to fix your marriage. Marriage is a legal system to control and monitor property.
The court system will literally govern your life for you. If you look at troubled people and they get married, their chaos enters their children. If enough chaos enters their children, we now have children going out and hurting other children. A bully is a strong-willed child being governed by the anger of their parents. Selfishness is at the core of every problem, avoiding it helps you learn how to fix your marriage. You get emotional intelligence from your programs, the people who put you in those 10 years.
Unlearn those programs first to know how to fix your marriage. As a society, we need a family system that is strong. The society needs to endorse and support that because all the troubles that we have as a society are coming from only one group, the chaos kids.
The problem is not the person. The person is the carrier of the problem. This entity breathes an energy called Against Energy. Acceptance is the antidote of Against Energy. You have to leave Against and you have to enter the world of Acceptance. The entity cannot live in acceptance. So this third element is called Being the only observer. If you choose to live in acceptance and gratitude you need to learn how to fix your marriage, the third step is to become the only observer.
Start having acceptance for every tiny little thing and that becomes the key to living this life. Acceptance and gratitude has to be happening literally in every second of your life. As long as acceptance and gratitude is happening, you now can have the right to observe into existence literally whatever you want.
The acceptance world has a feeling to it. How To Fix Your Marriage. Then on the 28th year, he figured out how to save his marriage and completely transformed his relationship. Larry is a common sense marriage expert, who knows everything about how to fix your marriage. He gives really direct advice and powerful insights to marriage. He was unhappily married for 27 years and then on the 28th year, he discovered some really powerful secrets that will help you how to fix your marriage. I want to jump right and I want to ask you, why did you stay married unhappily and as you put it, in hell for 27 years?
Why did it take too long to learn how to fix your marriage? It has to do with programing which you need to consider it when learning how to fix your marriage.
Everybody knows about programming. Synaptic connections are all forming by the billions and they are stimulated by the adults who raised you. The instruction is put in there, which you need to unlearn when learning how to fix your marriage. This is not a memory. This is literally an instruction that will stay with you the rest of your life. When you grow up with abuse, abandonment, or neglect, but you have in your brain is a set of instructions that take on a life of their own.
Unlearn those to relearn how to fix your marriage. They come only for the intimate. One person literally collapses morally, spiritually, financially every other way and that kills intimacy. When the intimacy is dead, the marriage is over and you really need to learn how to fix your marriage.
What creates divorce is the chaos of those first 10 years, the instructions literally in those first 10 years. That is the absolute maximum and they absolutely collapse. They literally will fight this instruction system from their childhood. My father was a gambler and my mother was an alcoholic so I have lots of neglects and abandonments in my programming. So it is really important to learn how to fix your marriage.
I also have another program because my parents never divorced. What that pain did is I had to go search for the truth. This is the true truth that can teach you how to fix your marriage. The truth you can apply in your life. I had to know the real truth because I had to get the emotional relief.
Marsha drove the pain. People are always saying you have to overcome your childhood in order to learn how to fix your marriage. How do you start to address those pains that the unconscious behavior that is driving you and your relationships?
How did you learn how to fix your marriage? What I do is I separate the person from that energy that lives inside them. Those instructions have a life of their own. If you think about what the world calls that, they call it the little voice inside your head. That little voice inside your head is the instructions that they put in there in those first 10 years.
You need to unlearn it to know how to fix your marriage. That means the person is no longer controlling the body. This entity is controlling the body, you need to understand it fully to learn how to fix your marriage.
However long that person is controlled in, they can literally go in possession, and then out, then become themselves, back into being possessed, and then back out and become themselves. You marry somebody. You also married this entity that possesses them as well. What the co-habitators have is they always have their eye in the back door.
They could leave in any time. This monster really comes out in legal marriage so need to learn how to fix your marriage if you are in legal marriage. You marry and you start a family and between 35 and 45, this thing from your childhood comes for you in the intimate relationship.
It comes for one mission and one mission only, to destroy intimacy. None of us want that. None of us want our parents to be our marriage. This entity is powerful if you know nothing about it. Childhood Dan has all the pain of your first 10 years. Every single bit of it. That childhood Dan is intelligent. We got original Dan, the good guy and then, we got this childhood Dan problem. The principle now is going to get rid of faithfulness and loyalty, commitment.
They tell their friends, family, and co-workers and what those people all sing out of the same hymn is divorce the bum, divorce her because you need to be happy. That switch in , was the beginning of the divorce revolution.
So all the way until now, we are seeing the growth, the birth, and the development of complete selfishness. In fact, the Indian culture, where the arranged marriage is, the Asian culture, a place was where this never was and selfishness is literally going everywhere.
One of the questions I have is something that you said really struck me. Why not just be co-habitators for the rest of your lives together?
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